Learning About Typical Versus Problem Behaviour in Teens
What's the difference between typical and problem behaviour?
Teen behaviours can be confusing and frustrating for adults. But a lot of those behaviours are happening for a reason. Many teen behaviours are signs of growth toward adulthood.
Problem behaviour is often an extreme form of common or typical behaviours. Something might be a problem behaviour when it:
- Causes more severe, long-term consequences. Examples might include damaging important relationships, getting into legal trouble, and failing in school.
- Causes physical or emotional harm. The harm may be either to the teen themself or to people close to them.
What are some examples of typical versus problem behaviour?
Teenagers are going through intense physical, emotional, and mental changes. Here are some of the types of growth that happen in teens, with examples of behaviours you might see.
Remember, even if a behaviour is common in teens, it doesn't mean that you should allow or encourage it. Remind your teen of your rules. And talk with your teen about choices that have long-term consequences.
Try to handle the common behaviours as best you can. Remind yourself that this phase won't last forever. Teens eventually become adults.
If you see problem behaviours, take them seriously and address them quickly. Get help from a doctor, counsellor, or other professional if needed.
Current as of: November 1, 2021
Author: Healthwise Staff
Medical Review:Andrew Littlefield PhD - Psychology, Behavioral Health & Lesley Ryan MD - Family Medicine & Donald Sproule MDCM, CCFP - Family Medicine