Domestic Abuse: Care Instructions

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Domestic abuse is different from an argument now and then. It is a pattern of abuse that one person uses to control another person's behaviour. It may start with threats and name-calling. Then it may lead to more serious acts, like pushing and slapping. The abuse also may occur in other areas. For example, the abuser may withhold money or spend a partner's money without his or her knowledge.

Abuse can cause serious harm. You are more likely to have a long-term health problem from the injuries and stress of living in a violent relationship. Women who are sexually abused by their partners have more sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancies. Men also can be abused in relationships. Anyone who is abused also faces emotional pain.

If you are pregnant, abuse can cause problems such as poor weight gain, infections, and bleeding. Abuse during this time may increase your baby's risk of low birth weight, premature birth, and death.

Follow-up care is a key part of your treatment and safety. Be sure to make and go to all appointments, and call your doctor or nurse call line if you are having problems. It's also a good idea to know your test results and keep a list of the medicines you take.

How can you care for yourself at home?

  • If you do not have a safe place to stay, discuss this with your doctor before you leave.
  • Have a plan for where to go, how to leave your house, and where to stay in case of an emergency. Do not tell your partner about your plan. For more information:
    • Check your local phone book or provincial website for resources on getting help in your area. There are many programs across the country that provide options for safety, advocacy, support, and needed information and services.
    • Contact your local police department, hospital, or clinic for information about shelters and safe homes near you.
  • Talk to a trusted friend or neighbour or a religious counsellor. Do not feel that you have to hide what happened.
  • Teach your children how to call for help in an emergency.
  • Be alert to warning signs, such as threats or drug and alcohol misuse. This can help you avoid danger.
  • If you can, make sure that there are no guns or other weapons in the house.

When should you call for help?

Call 911 anytime you think you may need emergency care. For example, call if:

  • You think that you or someone you know is in danger of being abused.
  • You have been hurt and cannot have someone safely take you to emergency care.
  • You have just been abused.
  • A family member has just been abused.

Call your doctor or nurse call line now or seek immediate medical care if:

  • You are worried about abuse in your relationship.
  • You suspect that a child has been abused.

Watch closely for changes in your health, and be sure to contact your doctor or nurse call line if you have any problems.

Where can you learn more?

Go to https://www.healthwise.net/patientEd

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Current as of: July 26, 2016