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Male Sexuality and Cancer: Erection Problems

What options are you ready to try?

Use this page to talk with your partner about what options you might want to try. You can print it if you’d like. Once you’ve filled out the table, you and your partner can talk about the questions at the end of the page.

If you feel comfortable, you can share your answers with your healthcare provider.

Some of the options in the table below need a prescription or referral from your healthcare provider.

Option
How willing are you to try it?
How willing is your partner to try it?
​Non-penetrative sexual activity (like touching, oral sex)
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
​Experiment with sex toys
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
Oral medicine for erections
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
​Vacuum erection device
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
​Penile injections
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
Penile implant (inflatable penile prosthesis)
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
External penile prosthesis with harness
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try
  • willing to try
  • unsure
  • not willing to try​​


Things to discuss with your partner

  • How do we feel about using or exploring erectile aids and/or sex toys?
  • What should we do when you get aroused and I don’t?
  • Are you comfortable with one of us reaching orgasm even if the other does not?
  • Is it OK if I bring you to orgasm through touching or oral caressing even if I do not have a full erection?
  • What kinds of touching do you most enjoy now?
  • What kinds of touching do I most enjoy now?​

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